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Sucess Stories
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AVANCE - El Paso Success Stories
The Change That Makes a Difference
Sara started in the AVANCE program in January this year. In February, she
wrote this story: "Before starting in the program, my children would ask
me to help them with their homework. I couldn't help them and would feel
very terrible. It got to a point at which my daughter would not ask for
my help. One day, I asked her why she didn't request my help with her schoolwork,
and she responded, 'What for, mommy? When I ask you, you always tell me
you don't know.' It was then when I decided to do something about it. I
informed myself about the AVANCE program. The program has helped me significantly.
I can already help my children better. But the fact that my children
are proud that I am educating myself is more important."
My Dream to Attend School
"When I got married and my children were born, I thought that I would be
in the house taking care of my children and doing housework. The dreams
of me attending school again would have been postponed until my children
grew up or went to school. I looked into various schools, but every school
would tell me that they did not have a childcare center. That was what was
holding me back in this country. I am without family - it's only me, my
husband and my sons (Brandon, 6, and Bryan, 1). One day, thank God, I became
aware of AVANCE by means of a flyer. I decided to investigate what it was
all about. I informed myself that this program was going to help me achieve
my goals. Being a well-rounded person and enriching my knowledge, with this
kind of preparation, I could obtain a better job or continue studying if
I wish. Now that I think of it, people who are better prepared have a better
way of living, and the best contribution we can give our children is to
keep studying." -Cecilia
Literacy for Family Health-Language will be no Barrier!
Estela is a mother of two children, Luis, 2 and Cindy, 8. She has always
been dedicated to the home. She used to clean her house, go shopping for
groceries and pick Cindy up from school. She looks back and says, "This
is all I did all week. When I started to come to AVANCE, my life changed
totally." Cindy has type 1 diabetes. Estela often had to miss class because
her daughter missed school due to the disease, which she could not manage
well. At AVANCE, Estela has learned enough English to communicate with Cindy's
doctor and dietician. When she could not find type 1 diabetes management
classes available free of charge in Spanish, she didn't let that stop her.
She now attends the classes in English on Wednesday evenings and she is
proud of her ability to understand and care for Cindy better. Estela's husband
also helps her study to take her GED exams. Estela says, "My family is united
and our future dreams are to be a family that is never discriminated against
for not speaking English and for not having an education."
New School, New Shoes
When Rosa arrived at Lamar Elementary School in Central El Paso on registration
day, she looked helpless, without confidence and a little scared. Her son,
William, age 2, kept crying for a long time and looking at the children's
classroom door hoping to see his mother come back. Another boy came to show
off his new shoes. William, innocently, showed off his shoes-but there were
so many holes in the soles of his shoes that the AVANCE staff imagined how
painful it must have been for him to walk in them. We could tell Rosa was
proud, so we bought William a new pair of shoes, and told Rosa that someone
had donated them to AVANCE. She gave us permission to give them to him.
Before, Rosa and William used to miss class when there were problems with
the transportation. Now, they come walking the mile and a half from home
to school, even if it is cold and raining. In just a few months, William
is a happy child who loves to come to school and participate in all activities.
He likes to sing, dance, read, and he really loves to be the "leader" of
the day, which means he helps set out breakfast for the rest of his class.
Rosa says, "I can set the example if I want to. There is no excuse. I have
made progress. I knew nothing before. My goal is to try always."
I was Meant to be Here
Ana and her son Rafael began coming to AVANCE last September at Lee Elementary
School in Northeast El Paso. Ana thought parenting classes would be fun,
but she didn't really think she'd be challenged. She already had two older
children in school. As she learned about the need for positive reinforcement
and encouragement, she began to second-guess the way she and her husband
were pressuring and threatening her older boys to pass tests at school.
Things came to a crisis point and, one day, she broke down and cried in
class. Ana's own words best express the impact of the changes she has gone
through: "Now I know that, with what I have learned here at AVANCE, I am
a person who recognizes her mistakes and who can ask for help and advice.
I have to learn to forgive myself. I don't think it is by chance that I
am here attending these classes. I know that God put the means for me to
be here with a purpose and, do you know what it is? Learning how to be a
good mother and to teach my husband, my family and the people what I am
learning. I give thanks to God and this country because programs like these
exist."
Never Too Old
to Learn and to Teach
Señora Valencia is a 65 year-old great-grandmother who has been
attending AVANCE classes at Lee Elementary School in northeast El Paso since
September of last year. She attends with her great-grandchild, Luís,
age 2, who often stays with her because mom leaves home at 3 a.m. to work
in a factory. Although Señora Valencia has already raised two generations
of children, she regarded herself as never too old to learn. But she didn't
think she could help anybody else. At AVANCE, she was encouraged to share
what she had learned by teaching mini-lessons on parenting to others. She
has since surpassed all the younger moms in reaching out to the community,
beginning with her own family, friends and neighbors. In six short months,
Señora Valencia has made over 25 presentations to 15 other families
with children in age from birth to three years old. She is having the time
of her life and says that she feels young again helping others.
A New Start on Life
Angélica lives with her three children in a part of the Agua Dulce
colonia, east of Horizon City, where there is no running water. They get
their water from a tank outside their home. Before coming to AVANCE, the
two older siblings went to school while little David and Angélica
stayed at home. Although David was already three years old, he had no
hair
and did not talk. Angélica originally thought that David had no
hair
because of allergies to the portable water. However, after one month of
attending AVANCE, his hair began
to grow and he started to speak.
It was discovered that stress,
depression and a lack of social
interaction with other children helped explain why David had so little
hair and did not speak. He is now rapidly learning new words each week.
When he sees the AVANCE teachers, David runs to hug them, and
he loves playing with the other
children. He especially enjoys painting with watercolors. David is a happy,
loving child. Angélica tells us that AVANCE gave David a new
start on life.
Carmen's Dream
At the time that Carmen entered the AVANCE program, she was living in
a shelter for abused women. She now has her own place and is working toward
achieving her goals. She recently wrote the following passage: "Before coming
to AVANCE I was at home spending a lot of time watching TV. I didn't have
a house or a job, but I had to make decisions about my future, so I decided
to study English and to get my GED. At this time, I am doing volunteer work
in a shelter by playing with the children, reading books with them and helping
them with their homework. I have a daughter who doesn't have her left hand
and we receive therapy. The therapists have told me that I am doing a good
job with her and this is the reason why I would like to work with children.
Also, I want my son to finish high school and attend college. He is very
intelligent and he has good grades. At this time he is ten years old and
he knows a lot about computers. I know he will make a better life for himself,
but I need to be a good example by learning more English, earning my GED
certificate and continuing on to college. Now that I am in AVANCE, the communication
with my children is better and I have learned to be a better mother. When
I get my GED, I would like to enter college and start a career in teaching
or social work. I know I can do it because when I have dreams, sooner or
later, I'll get them."
The Challenge of Being a Mom
Elsa has a daughter, Claudia, age 2, who has Down Syndrome and a son,
José Alberto, age 4. José used to be very angry and threw
a lot of tantrums. Since coming to the program, Claudia has begun to talk
and walk and Betito is more calm and shares toys with others. She shares
her thoughts about motherhood and accomplishing her goals: "My goals are
to be a good parent, especially with Claudia who needs special care, but
I cannot forget Betito. Mother: a word so small, but so immense in meaning.
It's a challenge being a parent. That is why it's one of my goals. We don't
understand our parents when we are children, until we become parents ourselves.
My children are the most important thing in my life. I love them greatly,
and I want to make whole and good people out of them. I want to teach them
good habits and values because values never lose place. I want to teach
them respect for others. I want them to achieve a good education since it
is the best inheritance we can give them. To achieve all this, I have to
prepare myself to be a good mother and to set an example to my children
for life. Without any doubt, Claudia will be my major satisfaction and Betito
my major pride."
Little Steps, Big Changes Delia has two daughters, Carolina, 3 years
old, and Stefania, 8 months. Before coming to AVANCE, Delia only took
care of the physical needs of her children. She never talked to them,
played with them or took them outside. Unbelievably, Carolina was afraid
to play on the school playground because she had never been on one before.
Delia writes how AVANCE has changed her life: "Thanks to this program
I have the opportunity to study and progress. It has also made me feel
better as a woman because I used to feel like a maid at home. Now, I realize
that I can leave my house and meet other people, learn from them and be
more independent. I feel stronger and more willing to get ahead. At the
same time, it gives me time to take my knowledge to my neighbors where
I tell them about the importance of an education. My daughters feel happy
because they spend time with children their age. As a parent, I always
look for the best for my daughters so that they may have a better life.
For this reason, I want to educate myself so that in the near future I
can obtain a good job, and therefore make their and my dreams come true.
This program has changed my life because I have learned to overcome my
fears and how wrong I was in the care of my daughters. There are dreams
that are hard to achieve, but when one is willing, I think they are not
hard. They simply take us time."
Chandra Almony is the Development Specialist for AVANCE-El Paso focused on helping young families break the cycle of poverty through early childhood development, parenting, and adult literacy. From 1999-2001, Ms. Almony taught ESL in a primary school in rural Namibia, Southern Africa as a Peace Corps volunteer. |
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